"The greatest griefs are those we cause ourselves."
~Sophocles
There really is NO reason for the negativity....really and truly there isn't.....and it absolutely DOES feel like it's just been allowed (by me) to become a habit.....soooooo what do we do with bad habits?? We change! As the insanity quote goes ".....insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results."